Have you ever felt like no matter what you do, you always feel like you aren't good enough or what you are doing isn't enough? Every woman experiences this from time to time, as you are pulled in so many different directions and have so many various responsibilities it makes your head spin. When you are at work, you feel you are neglecting responsibilities at home, and when at home, you are wondering how you are going to convince your boss that you deserve that next promotion while still making it to Suzie's dance recital. And on top of that, you are supposed to fix an appetizing dinner, have your husband's suit dry-cleaned, and be a sex kitten in the bedroom!
Relax. You aren’t the only woman who feels that way. And you know what? You can be sure that some of those women in your neighborhood whose homes always look immaculate have a housekeeper. It is impossible to please everyone and gets everything done all the time, so stop beating yourself up. Have you ever heard the financial philosophy that in order to get ahead and prepare for your future that you must “pay yourself first”? Well the same applies here. Make sure that you take care of yourself first. In order to have the physical energy and emotional stamina to keep up with your busy schedule and endless demands, you have to make time for yourself. Each woman is different, but find what helps you re-energize and spend a few moments every day “splurging” on yourself. You need it, you deserve it, and everyone you love will benefit by you feeling at your best.
by Kathy Kleine Salisbury
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