Which do you think affects our self - esteem more, our own flawed self-image, or when our husband or boyfriend is drawn to women in film and magazines that are basically a fantasy and don't exist? Or for guys, that your wife/girlfriend is constantly comparing you to other men or talking with others about everything you aren't? Women often struggle with feeling like they "aren't enough" for their man when they feel they are in constant competition with a fake standard. Although it's normal to recognize beauty in the feminine OR masculine form, if we truly love our guy/girl, we need to affirm them on a regular basis, both in appreciation and displays of our physical attraction toward them. Although we need to be self - confident on our own, the opinion and treatment of us by our significant other matters. Guess what guys? If you make your girl feel like she's your one and only, the most sexy and beautiful woman on the planet, she will want to be that for you. Women who dont feel beautiful and sexy, won't be as responsive. And girls...quit emasculating and complaining about your guy. If you've got a good one (lol) tell him! He needs to know you respect and appreciate him. Maybe if you treat and talk about him as your knight in shining armor, he will feel more empowered and supported to be that for you. And regarding ourselves? We may not be models of human perfection, but we should still strive to be the best of who we are, out of respect for ourselves and love for our special someone. No one wants the person they first fell in love with to end up looking like a cave troll out of sheer apathy and laziness! Although inner beauty will always be most important, there's nothing wrong with caring how you appear on the outside too :)
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